Round hole, Square peg
“You can’t force all things to be as you will them to be. Some things just take time. Actions can be changed but you can’t force thoughts or feelings. These two things must be voluntary. Just like love. Love just is. You can’t necessarily love at first sight. Love grows. Then eventually the miracle of falling in love comes by. It comes by through the growth. Waking up everyday with them in mind. Waiting to hear their voice or for some sort of acknowledgment. Loving their every breath and every smile. Enjoying every sweet moment. Overcoming obstacles. But when you are able to endure the time, the differences and the obstacles…and not just endure them…but still feel every bit of love for them in your heart then one has achieved the rare, unconditional love. Mistakes are unavoidable but not irreparable if truly committed. You can’t force someone to love you…just like you can’t force a person to fall in love with you. You can’t force a person to be what they don’t want to be…just like you can’t force a person to accept you. But with love…there is no force, there are no borders or obstacles that can’t be overcome. Sometimes love…is just being able to enjoy life. No matter who or what you love. To see the world in a different way. Love is not seeking happiness…but knowing it can be attained.”
